Many people have asked me what am I going to talk about now? With Mak’s arrival, the updates have slowed down and people began to think that the site had come to an end.
The truth is, this is the time that I truly began the site for. As the time for Makayla’s arrival got closer, I spent a lot of my time thinking about the qualities that I felt would make a good dad. Truthfully, I can’t say that I had most of the things on my checklist. But by the same token, I didn’t think that I was too far off from having them either.
And that’s what I plan to layout here from now on. Becoming better for her has become far more important to me than anything else I’ve tried to take on. I think it’s important for dad’s to be ok with not being perfect. For them to acknowledge they aren’t always ready for what parenthood brings. For it to be ok to not always know what to do.
But what isn’t ok is the acceptance of this. I want to better myself for her, but I also want my peers, who one day will be parents themselves(if they aren’t already) to know that they aren’t the only ones on this journey. Hopefully in my process of becoming better for her, others wont feel alone in trying to become better for their joy. And in return, I get their support and opinions on parenting as well.
I had a dream last night I was baby sittin makayla and I kept buyin her stuff n u got mad at me and said u wasn’t gonna put it on her. Thats ****** up man it was nice dress honestly. So don’t be a **** in real life when ppl start tryin to help u along this process lol
well we already spoke about all this and truthfully, i think that you’re well on your way to becoming a better person. just by having your mind set on that goal and being focused, i have no doubts of your capabilities. remember what i said about date nite for you and your girl. don’t worry, i’ll babysit! lol playdate with the kids soon homie. i can’t wait to meet your princess.